Week 436
Positive Post Sunday, July 6, 2025…. Week 436. One of my favorite sayings is, “Your actions speak so loud, I cannot hear a word you are saying.” I thought I made it up years ago, but when I researched it, I found a few very similar quotes. One quote, “What you are stands over you the while, and thunders so that I cannot hear what you say to the contrary” is attributed to one of the most influential and quoted writers of 19th century America, Ralph Waldo Emerson. It comes directly from an essay titled “Social Aims” Emerson published in 1875.
Regardless of the history of the quote or the variations found, I believe it still has deep meaning today, perhaps even more considering the current challenges we are facing in the world today.
I see the quote as very straightforward; our actions and character are more important than the words we say. Our actions, rather than the words we use, truly reflect who we are. I’m often reminded of the importance of making sure I back up my verbal expressions, especially when related to my faith, with actions and behaviors that are pleasing to my Lord.
A deeper dive into Emerson’s quote, might suggest that our “true inner self” radiates with such innate power that it quietly guides our actions, speaking with a clarity that words could never match. In other words, our true nature and beliefs, which are manifested in our actions and behaviors, simply mirror our inner most thoughts and emotions and speak louder than the words we project.
From a societal perspective, Emerson’s quote reminds me of the importance of discerning the true intentions and character of individuals and groups rather than being swayed by their persuasive words or appearances. Actions, when carefully observed and analyzed, become the barometer of authenticity and integrity. This perspective reminds me to tread cautiously, trusting actions over words and seeking out those who embody their beliefs rather than those who merely verbalize them.
From a faith perspective, Emerson’s insight underscores the divine wisdom in evaluating the heart and spirit of individuals beyond the surface of eloquent speech or outward appearances. Scripture (Matthew 7:16) reminds us that “by their fruits you will know them,” encouraging us to weigh actions as evidence of genuine conviction and spiritual integrity. In a world often veiled by persuasion and performance, this call to discernment urges me to trust in God’s guidance, seek those who walk in truth, and surround myself with souls whose lives reflect the beliefs they proclaim.
Are your external behaviors aligning with your innermost values and beliefs?
Are you living in congruence with your authentic self, or merely projecting a version of yourself that society expects?