Week 418

Positive Post Sunday, March 2, 2025…. Week 418.  In Positive Post Sunday, February 9, 2025…. Week 415, I wrote about one of my favorite writings on the influence we have on our children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.  I encouraged all parents, grandparents great grandparents and guardians to read, “When You Thought I Wasn’t Looking.”, a message that reminds us that our children are watching every action we take. 

In that PPS I noted, “Although the verses below are geared toward young children, I’d like to someday write a version for older children who, like me and my children, continue to watch and learn from their parents and grandparents as they age with grace and dignity.”  Well, today is that day, and I dedicate this PPS to my parents Dana and Ken Rendler.  Mom and dad, when you thought I wasn’t looking I was and still do to this day.  I am so blessed to have parents who continue to be role models for our family as they age with grace, dignity, faith and love of family.

Here’s a list inspired by “When You Thought I Wasn’t Looking,” but from the perspective of adult children like me observing our elderly parents with gratitude and pride:

When You Thought I Wasn’t Looking – A Tribute to Our Aging Parents

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw your unwavering faith in the face of adversity, showing me the power of hope and the belief in God our Father.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw your genuine gratitude for the love and support around you, inspiring me to appreciate my own blessings.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you navigate new challenges with grace and resilience, teaching me the true meaning of strength.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I noticed your acts of kindness towards others, reminding me to always be compassionate.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I witnessed your unwavering determination to maintain your independence, showing me the importance of self-reliance.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you cherish the small moments in life, teaching me to find joy in simplicity.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I observed your patience and understanding, especially during the most challenging of times, guiding me to approach life with an open heart.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I noticed how you manage through the aches and pains of aging, teaching me resilience and endurance.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you embrace the changes that come with growing older, reminding me to accept life’s transitions with dignity.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I observed you sharing your wisdom and life stories with family and friends, imparting valuable lessons that will stay with me forever.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I noticed how you continued to pursue your passions, teaching me the importance of lifelong learning.

When you thought I wasn’t looking, I saw you celebrate the achievements of your loved ones, showing me the significance of family and community.

Aging with dignity and pride is not easy, especially navigating through the many physical and mental challenges that are often experienced as we move through the latter years of our lives.  Those like my parents, who are full of grace, have deep faith, are generous beyond their means and love their families unconditionally, are amazing and inspirational role models for all of us as we too watch the sand in our hour glasses continue to drop. 

May our elderly continue to be blessed with grace, strength, and peace. They hold a wealth of wisdom and love that enriches our lives every day.

What would you add to the list above based on your experience with the aging loved ones in your life?

How are you supporting and recognizing the elderly who are navigating through the latter year of their lives?